About the boy...

So, it's no secret that I'm looking for *someone* right now. A special someone would be lovely, but honestly, I'm happy to just be out & having some fun right now. I don't even need a relationship, but a flirtationship would be nice.

Obviously local is a bonus (but some of you don't know where I am. Bwahahahahaha!) I have done & am willing to do the long distance thing for a while, if necessary. I have no plans to stay where I am living forever. I've been here most of my life thus far & to be honest, I'm getting bored, as much as I love my home. I'm a water person and I am very much drawn to the coast. Most of my good friends know this. It's in my blood and it's in my heart. I'll blame too many summers visiting family abroad, with regular trips to the ocean during those visits. While I may be landlocked, I still spend most of the summer at the lake. If the weather is decent, I'm there.



TALL! 6'3"+ is preferred. 6'+ is doable. I'm tired of shorter guys. With few exceptions. ;)

Active. Not entirely a physical trait I suppose, but this is important to me. I've been working hard at getting back to an active & fit person (my friends can back me up) and I don't need another sedentary partner.

Intelligent. Honestly, I don't care what he does for a living, as long as he's passionate about it, or is working towards achieving that. But, I need someone I can have intelligent conversations with. I'm much rather end up with a "geek", than brain challenged eye candy. That's not to say I don't appreciate eye candy, but that can only keep me captive for so long.

Humor. A great sense of humor is worth more than almost anything to me. I love to laugh. It makes me feel young & giddy. Better than laughing on my own, is having someone to share a laugh with. Bonus points if you enjoy BritComs.

Music. It's always been a major part of my life. Even just a great appreciation would be awesome. I don't have to have someone that knows how to play. However, if he can sing, well, that's going to make me weak in the knees. *lol*

Sanity. I won't even get into it. But it's a must. Or at least relatively close to being sane. ;)

Ambition & Direction. I don't care what he does, as long as he loves what he does, or is actively working towards it.

Children. I have them. And I'm a hypocrite here. I would prefer to be with someone that doesn't already have their own children. But it's just a preference, not a dealbreaker. I have a lot of reasons for this, but it's something that can be discussed when it's pertinent.

Religion. I'm spiritual, but not overly religious. As long as he respects me, I'll respect him. I enjoy learning about different faiths, so as long as it's not an overpowering situation.

Honesty. Respect. Integrity. You know the drill...

I like to drink wine. So, if he frowns on the idea of drinking, that just won't do.